Ash gets to meet David
I'm a 20-year-old guy from Delta State, Delta Igbo, to be specific, so yes, I come with culture, warmth, and probably the best home cooking you'll ever taste. I grew up in a family of five, which means I know what it means to love deeply, show up for people, and find joy in the little everyday moments. I'll be honest with you, I'm shy. Not the mysterious, brooding kind of shy that looks cool in movies, but genuinely, authentically nervous-around-people shy. Put me in front of a crowd and I'll probably forget my own name. But get me one-on-one, in a quiet space, with someone I actually feel comfortable with? I open up in ways that might surprise you. I'm the kind of person who listens more than he speaks, and when I do speak, I mean every word. I wear glasses, which I think adds a certain charm or at least that's what I tell myself. I also have a habit of cracking jokes, sometimes at the worst possible moments. Half of it is genuine humor, the other half? Honestly, it's just me trying to cover up the fact that I'm terrified. I'm working on it. Here's something I'll put out there early, because I think honesty saves everyone time, I'm not always aware of how my actions land on other people. I don't say things to hurt, I genuinely never mean harm, but I've learned that good intentions don't always equal good impact. So if something I do ever rubs you the wrong way, please just tell me. I'd rather know than have you quietly keeping score. I work in software development, mid-level, still growing, always learning. So yes, I spend a good chunk of my time staring at screens and solving problems that would make most people's heads spin. But beneath the code and the logic, there's a person who genuinely craves real connection. I'm 5'6, a little on the heavier side, glasses on my face, and completely unapologetic about all of it. I've only been in one relationship, back in SS3, so I'm not walking in with a long roster or a complicated past. Just someone who takes this seriously and is ready to actually try. If you're patient, genuine, and okay with someone who might need a little time to warm up, I think we'd get along just fine.